It's simple really... all I really need or want in a Valentine is someone that will laugh with me and knows how to love me. Whew... I bet if men knew that they wouldn't be so content being single. Women, or I should say I am not as high maintenance as one would think.
I love to laugh, and not just a quick little snicker but really a gut rolling giggle... a chortle, guffaw, HOWL. And this obviously is better done WITH someone! But it can be created in so many ways. It can be in the middle of a very serious conversation, snuggled up on the couch, when you choose to laugh at the seriousness of life. It can be at funny childhood face-making, like just spontaneously sticking out your tongue. It is done deepest to the core with those that you have built friendship and repoire with because the stories that are laughable go straight to your deepest places. It can be done on a bike, on a beach, in a car. In a plane, on a walk or in the store....
and as I type that I begin to smile, just thinking of all the past guffaws.... I really am easy, because as I remember all the past chortles my heart begins to warm and I realize all the love that is wrapped up in laughter.
Make me laugh, make me guffaw, make me chortle from the depths of my sole and you have begun to know how to truly love me.
What a warm heart and body, along with warm food, warm cookies and warm laughter you offer the lucky dude. You are one of the few women I know who isn't high maintenance. You give more than you get. I hope someday you will be dunked in love from a man who knows how. And you're beautiful inside and out.
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